yeah, when I was a kid I got a good grade one time, and a friend who was black said to me, 'man, why you have to be so white all the time.' I didn't know what to say, but I think I gave him such a 'WTF' look that he kind of walked it back. He said, 'oh, I guess that was kind of racist of me' - 'yeah man, it was.... but not towards me, towards yourself.'
Blew my mind... we were in like 6th grade I guess, so young for him to feel that way.
Unfortunately Defiler, I would like to say that the black middle/upper class don't embrace it, but the kids can get sucked in.... blew my mind when we came to find out that the rash of break ins in a neighborhood I used to live in was not from the welfare block a short walk away... it wasn't the poor kids, it was a bunch of upper class african american kids two blocks the other direction, who all lived in nicer houses than I did. Just kids, playing at being something they're not and should never want to be. I just hope they grew out of it.